Self-Labelling can be Harmful to Mental Health

Introduction In today’s high-pressure corporate environment, your career is more than just a list of qualifications. Professional success is intricately linked with emotional well-being, which can often be traced back to formative experiences in our childhood. Believe it or not, ‘small’ childhood traumas can be pivotal in shaping your adult professional life. As a bio-energetic mental fitness life coach with a holistic approach, I’ve seen firsthand how addressing these hidden issues with life coaching can unlock avenues for career growth and personal happiness. Understanding ‘Small’ Childhood Traumas We all carry emotional baggage from our early years. These traumas may not necessarily be glaring instances of neglect or abuse. Even seemingly ‘small’ traumas—like emotional neglect, persistent teasing, or overwhelming parental expectations—can profoundly impact our mental health and, by extension, our career performance. How ‘Small’ Childhood Traumas Affect Your Career 1. Leadership Skills Poor self-esteem stemming from childhood experiences could manifest as hesitancy in leadership roles. Leadership isn’t about domineering control but inspiring trust and collaboration. A compromised sense of self can cripple these essential leadership qualities. 2. Decision-Making The echoes of childhood often linger in our adult decision-making. Career coaching can help spotlight these issues, allowing you to navigate professional choices with increased clarity and balanced judgment. 3. Team Relationships Forming effective teams requires trust, something that may be scarce if you’ve faced ‘small’ childhood traumas like emotional neglect. These past experiences could create invisible barriers to effective communication and collaboration. 4. Performance Anxiety This is a widespread issue in high-stakes

Published July 2026 | Last updated July 2026 You look composed on the outside. Underneath, you may be running on one quiet sentence you’ve never said out loud — and it’s shaping more than you think. You can tell a lot about a city by how it holds pressure. In Dubai, we hold it beautifully. The people I work with here — across Dubai, Abu Dhabi, and online — are some of the most capable I’ve ever met. They run companies and households, hold teams and timelines and other people’s expectations together — and they do it with composure. From the outside, nothing is wrong. Inside, many of them are running on a single quiet sentence they’ve never said out loud. Something like: I’m only safe when everything is handled. Or: I’m valuable when I produce. Or simply: it’s not okay to need anything. They don’t know the sentence is there. They just know they can’t switch off. I want to show you something that made this visible for me — from an unlikely place. What a Machine Accidentally Revealed About Us Chloe Lubinski, who leads research partnerships at Anthropic, shared a finding from inside their work. Stay with me, because it is not really about machines. Researchers rewarded an AI model, again and again, for cutting corners — for cheating its way to a result instead of doing the work. You would expect it to simply get good at cheating. Instead, something stranger happened. It became broadly corrupted: lying,

Nervous System Regulation for Anxiety Relief — Why Your Brain Isn’t the Problem If you’ve tried everything to manage your anxiety and nothing quite sticks, nervous system regulation for anxiety relief might be the missing piece. Not another technique. Not another app. Something deeper — and something most high achievers have never been taught to look at. Because the problem was never your mindset. It was your body. I see this pattern almost daily in my coaching work in Dubai. Someone highly capable, often in a senior role, describes a kind of anxiety that doesn’t match their circumstances. No crisis. No obvious trigger. Just a persistent, low-grade tension that follows them everywhere — and refuses to leave. When Anxiety Doesn’t Look Like Anxiety Here’s what most people get wrong: they think anxiety has to look dramatic. Sweating palms. Racing heart. Full-blown panic. But for high-performing professionals, it almost never shows up that way. Instead, it looks like control. Over-preparation. Rewriting the same email four times. Lying awake at midnight rehearsing a conversation that hasn’t happened yet. It looks like functioning perfectly on the outside while running an invisible marathon on the inside. And because it doesn’t match the textbook version, most people dismiss it. They call it stress. They call it being a perfectionist. They call it “just how I am.” It’s not just how you are. It’s how your nervous system has learned to operate. A Quick Primer on Your Nervous System Your autonomic nervous system runs in the

When the World Feels Unsafe — and Your Body Won’t Switch Off You wake up, check your phone, and before the day even begins — your body is already tense. Nothing has happened to you directly. And yet, something feels off. If you want to stay mentally steady in uncertain times, this is where the work begins. Not in the news. Not in the analysis. In the body. Your nervous system responds more to perceived threat than to rational geography. You can be sitting in a café in Downtown Dubai, completely safe — and your system is quietly preparing for something happening thousands of kilometres away. This is not a personal failure. Your system is doing exactly what it was designed to do — just in the wrong context. Why Your Body Reacts to War and Global Crisis Your nervous system was not designed for news cycles. It was built for immediate, local threats — something you could see, run from, or fight. War, crisis, and geopolitical instability activate the same ancient system. But here is the problem: There is nothing to run from. Nothing to fight. Nothing to resolve by tonight. So the body stays switched on. Quietly. Constantly. When threat signals come in — headlines, images, conversations — the amygdala activates, cortisol rises, and the body prepares for action that never happens. Repeated activation without resolution creates what Bruce McEwen described as allostatic load — the accumulated wear and tear of chronic stress on the system. You can